Ruby Bouie Johnson is a sex therapist and educator in private practice in Plano, Texas. Her areas of specialty are ethically nonmonogamous partnerships/families, Kink/BDSM, desire discrepancy, and infidelity. She is the founder and CEO for PolyDallas Millennium© LLC (

Ms. Johnson is a speaker, writer, and therapist who has several publications and interviews in many media outlets. She can be found on her website, and email,

Ms. Johnson has presented, including keynote, at several national and international conferences. She has been interviewed on radio shows, blogs, podcasts, and magazines such as Playboy Magazine, Vice, Cosmopolitan, and Women’s Health.

Ms. Johnson was the Guest Editor for Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships for a special edition on polyamory and other relationship constellations.

She has two chapters coming in two academic books on consensually nonmonogamous relationships. Currently, Ms. Johnson is on the Board of Directors for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Hopeful Solutions.

She participated on the committee that formulated the guidelines for clinical practice Kink/BDSM and consensual nonmonogamy for the American Psychological Association.

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